TOXIC POSITIVITY CULTURE: Are Positive vibes what you need?

Negative emotions are seen as repulsive with Toxic Positivity. Instead Positivity and happiness are forced , thereby denying , minimizing and invalidating authentic human emotional experiences. We should not have to pretend everything is OK when it isn't . It is OK not to be OK.

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RANT: WHERE IS THE PRESSURE COMING FROM?

An unknown force has said 30 years is the time limit for trying to be "successful". And in the force's context "successful" means being financially stable and married with kids. If one is missing in the equation, lol sorry you failed.At 18 the pressure kicks in for the boys, little wonder they venture into whatever form of "business" , doesn't really matter, what matters now is that they MUST now make ends meet as men.

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Dear 13 year old me

Dear 13 year old me, I wish I didn’t have to write this letter . I wish you knew and practiced everything I’m about to tell you . This is little but it would have helped . The 13 year old phase might be over for you but hasn’t began…

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